"No one loses anyone, because no one owns anyone"
-Paulo Coelho
True, you cant lose anyone because you dont really own them. So true. But then think this through, in so many stages of our lives we try to own people. May be we do not recognize, it is but a very subconcious act of our mind. We feel possessive to some at least one or two, is that not a desire to own them? Or at least to own their time?
Then how do we define this desire of ownership???? I think this very desire of owning someone or something is nothing else but love.
Yes love. In my opinion love is when you look into the eyes of someone and from that very second your whole being, whole existance is filled with a steeping desire. Yes a desire to own then, own their each and every micro and nano second. You desire of owning their thoughts, their dreams, their conversations, their emotions, and just before you realize you want to own their desire of owning you too. In turn you want them to own your universe. This whole concept of ownership to me is love. As when we fail to own it hurts, we feel we are losing them. The sense of losing hurts.
Desire of ownership creats deep attachment, deepest of them all. Our mothers own us, may be that is the reason a mothers love is celebrated beyond everything in this world. We know we own them too.
I think this is why we lose only them who we love, not in life but in death. Because desirs burn, give warmth and heat. When we go ashtrey our skin becomes cold as it loses its desire, desire of owning life.
As for me gomzi, i desire to own you, deeply and fiercely. We both know this. And because of this i love you the most and am ded scared to lose you. To lose the you would be disowning love.. To have you is owning love itself.
I am yet to own you, and you are yet to own me. But atleast our hearts are filled with burning desires. We are warm and alive.
-Paulo Coelho
True, you cant lose anyone because you dont really own them. So true. But then think this through, in so many stages of our lives we try to own people. May be we do not recognize, it is but a very subconcious act of our mind. We feel possessive to some at least one or two, is that not a desire to own them? Or at least to own their time?
Then how do we define this desire of ownership???? I think this very desire of owning someone or something is nothing else but love.
Yes love. In my opinion love is when you look into the eyes of someone and from that very second your whole being, whole existance is filled with a steeping desire. Yes a desire to own then, own their each and every micro and nano second. You desire of owning their thoughts, their dreams, their conversations, their emotions, and just before you realize you want to own their desire of owning you too. In turn you want them to own your universe. This whole concept of ownership to me is love. As when we fail to own it hurts, we feel we are losing them. The sense of losing hurts.
Desire of ownership creats deep attachment, deepest of them all. Our mothers own us, may be that is the reason a mothers love is celebrated beyond everything in this world. We know we own them too.
I think this is why we lose only them who we love, not in life but in death. Because desirs burn, give warmth and heat. When we go ashtrey our skin becomes cold as it loses its desire, desire of owning life.
As for me gomzi, i desire to own you, deeply and fiercely. We both know this. And because of this i love you the most and am ded scared to lose you. To lose the you would be disowning love.. To have you is owning love itself.
I am yet to own you, and you are yet to own me. But atleast our hearts are filled with burning desires. We are warm and alive.
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